Wait ... What?!

But these secondary (and tertiary and quaternary) losses for widows are more than bumps in the road; they are on a completely foreign and un

What if ...?

This is one of the secondary losses that I am just now putting words to - the loss of perspective.

Who Am I, Again ... ?

During the pandemic, while social expectations were temporarily suspended ... I spent a lot of time getting to know my post-loss self.

Diagnosis Day

“Cancer.” He said it matter-of-factly, like he was telling me I needed to replace the brakes on my car. Rod was in a recovery room after...