onecraftywidowNov 3, 20202 minWait ... What?!But these secondary (and tertiary and quaternary) losses for widows are more than bumps in the road; they are on a completely foreign and un
onecraftywidowFeb 73 minCupid Can Keep His ArrowsYou do have control of you, and having a plan - any plan - is better than the alternative.
onecraftywidowJan 315 minWhat do you mean, I'm not Rod's wife any more?Each time you realize a loss or an end to something that you had shared together, there’s one less thing in the world that he had a part in
onecraftywidowJan 73 minHappy New ... Day?So it’s the first of the month. We have 12 of them every year. Get over it. Bah Humbug.
onecraftywidowDec 26, 20206 minHoliday-Whobie-Whattie?To borrow a phrase from the Grinch, Christmas became as foreign to me as the Whobilation was to him.
onecraftywidowNov 17, 20204 minIt’s Thanks … what-ing?You might think, “Holidays are not lost; they’ll roll around right when they’re supposed to, ....” Yeah, like a steamroller.
onecraftywidowNov 13, 20207 min“How are you doing?” and Other Impossible Questions“How are you doing?” ... Here’s what went through my head in that awkward silence between its asking and my responding.