This is one of the secondary losses that I am just now putting words to - the loss of perspective.

During the pandemic, while social expectations were temporarily suspended ... I spent a lot of time getting to know my post-loss self.

As a woman without a man, I must now figure out how to navigate the gender line if I wish to be heard.

Each time you realize a loss or an end to something that you had shared together, there’s one less thing in the world that he had a part in