Widow Life           

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What does Widow do?

Where is her place in the world and what is her purpose?

These answers aren’t as clear cut as Wife was in our American society. The cultural norms associated with it are sparse and vague, and, like Widow herself, no one wants to talk about it.​
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As a little girl growing up in the 1960s, my role in life was pretty much set for me. Sure, there was room for some variation, but the cultural norms dictated that I would graduate high school, go to college, get married, have kids, and live happily ever after.

I followed the script and it suited me well; I loved being Wife. Wife was how I interfaced with my world and everyone in it. It was how I knew who I was; it defined my responsibilities in the home, my place in the world, and my purpose in life.
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It's 2014.

Days keep passing. 
Things are trying to normalize.

I’ve even thought how ready I am to get the Christmas tree down and get my house back to ...

Back to what?